Sunday, July 3, 2011

Where Have All the Good Men Gone?

Okay, so here is a little rant. I came to the conclusion today, that the last several guys that have asked me out or showed any interest in me whatsoever (and by several, I of course mean like two...haha), have all been "bad boys". By that I mean, they smoke, do drugs, drink, live to party (and not the way the Jonas bros sing about) and everything else I don't do. This kind of has me baffled. I have lived my life always trying to do what's right, since I was 14 years old. Now don't get me wrong, there has been situations and circumstances that have caused me to stray a few times over the past five years, but for the most part, I have tried to live the best way I know how.

Here is where I get confused. I know quite a few Christian guys. But it's them, who only date the girls in the bikinis, with blonde hair, tan skin, and belly button rings. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with who you are. But it is a little irking to me, to see that the Christian guys seem to be completely caught up in appearance, while the guys I feel like I have little to nothing in common with, talk to me? I can't figure out why they like me, unless it's just the "forbidden fruit" thing, lol...awwkkkkkkwwwwwaaaaaaaard.

Anyways, it's just an observation that greatly disappoints me. I do have faith that one day, God will send me a good, Christian guy who will love me for ME.

2 lovely notes:

Clare said...

Hold onto the last thought, Jessica. I've been blessed to know some amazing Christian guys... the kind who value a pure and godly woman. :-) God bless you!

Jessica said...

Thank you, Clare! :)