Over Thinking

Boys confuse/irritate/frustrate me a lot. Why are there only two extremes? The one type of guy who shrugs you off, ignores you, and acts like he doesn't care and the other type of guy who is way too forward in an in your face kind of way? Why are there no guys who just want to talk and get to know you? Ugh. Maybe I should just stop trying...clearly they are all the same.